Regarding my choice of gear oil, here is an excerpt from the text that I started composing for my transmission thread.
For gear oil in the front differential and transfer case, ZF specifies SAF-AG4 with 4% Sturaco FM 1992. The SAF-AG4 is just a Castrol branded synthetic 75W90 gear oil. The Sturaco FM is a friction modifier that is added to keep the friction elements in the centre differential “happy”.
The gear oil listed under ETKA is G 055 145 A2. If you look around online, you will find that it sells for about $80+ /L which is insane if you ask me. From my research, this oil already contains the FM component which must be why it is so expensive. I decided to go with G 052 145 S2 (synthetic 75W90 gear oil) and add the FM separately.
I found a fellow on eBay in the UK and he was selling small quantities of the Sturaco additive. He had to purchase far more than what he required for his Audi because the transmission shop where he purchased it from would only sell it in full containers.