Update: got the replacement cap this friday (yesterday). tried my best to pull out the connector out of the old reservoir but nothing worked, tried a pick and hook set, the schwaben tool on ecs tuning for connectors, its just stuck. So i just put everything back and put the new cap in, and while doing so noticed the part of the cap that had fallen into the reservoir
fished those out, and connected everything. tested it out for 20 mins in the garage and then slapped everything together and took it for a longer drive. so far so good… Woot woot :D. Car is usable now and time to move on to other more maintenance like repairs.
A big shout out to @justincredible for answering all my stupid questions and also to @CountVohn, @razgriz10000 , @V10S6PA… thank you all.
Man I really took my time with this, I noticed that this thread was started on Jan 10th, almost a month a nd a half and in the end all i did was replace the reservoir cap.
I also found my whistling sounds thanks to @mixofia for starting another thread on that and it seems like for me the driver side throttle body has a small air leak. Ill post more on that thread.
Anyways thanks again guys.