I went back and added the big silver washers. I had already filled the MTF so you can imagine how fun that was. Ape had mentioned on one of his YouTube comments that yes indeed all of the plugs need washers.
I didn’t order the correct tool so I didn’t have that fill plug adapter, however a larger $10 hand pump emptied a bottle in just a few pumps. The extractor I ordered from ECS isn’t as nice as Ape’s.
I know that all of these fluids are “full til it comes out” but I can’t help but doubt myself and worry I’ll destroy a very expensive transmission. That’s why I asked, good ole anxiety.