Ok yes, what you described but make sure all your control arms and bushings are in good condition. If it were me I would make sure all stock components are in good form before we dive into possible suspension tweaks. If you have checked and all looks good then yes to what you said above plus great alignment.
Might want to consider upgrading bushings as well. The 18s will help the ride, but once you dial in with coil overs, harden some bushings (if u upgrade), and even add a sway you might increase nvh and decrease ride quality a bit, might end up somewhere in the middle and you might be happy?
Remember the car weighs over 4000 lbs so stripping weight where you can helps a lot. For instance Light weight rotors wheels and tires. Coils likely weigh less as well so it helps in more than one way. V8a6 seems to be happy with his h&r coils and he seemed to think ride improved!
Not sure on rear sway from experience, but you might be able to get the h&r coils and rear sway that work nicely together? Remember that once you start going down this path it gets slippery, but hopefully you strike a nice balance with slightly increased comfort and cornering, they do not always go hand and hand, but 18s will help, assuming you do not get rock hard tires. You cannot have your cake and eat it too, at least at this point in time.