Sorry to hear about your loss! Family and friends first without a doubt!
Regarding the O2s, I was under the impression that the layout was like this (At least in North America):
Back of car
Passenger Side (ECU 1) | Driver's Side (ECU 2)
O2 Bank 2 5 | 10 O2 Bank 4
O2 Bank 2 4 | 9 O2 Bank 4
|
O2 Bank 1 3 | 8 O2 Bank 3
O2 Bank 1 2 | 7 O2 Bank 3
O2 Bank 1 1 | 6 O2 Bank 3
Front of Car
Have I been looking at the layout all wrong this entire time? (I hope not!)